Advanced BDSM Gear – Going All In

Introduction

It’s time to step up the fear factor, the pain level and the naughty meter. And the fun!!  We are going ALL IN to discover what hard core BDSM play is all about.

We are going to get into some toys and fetishes that are not for everyone.  But I encourage you to try something wholeheartedly before you make your final decision on whether you like it or not.  From toys that will SHOCK ⚡you to toys that will bring out your deepest darkest depraved fantasies ?  

Some of you might question how pain and pleasure can be related to each other.  After all, aren’t pain and pleasure on opposite ends of the spectrum?  Consider this analogy.  You are eating your favorite spicy dish.  Maybe it’s atomic hot wings.  They taste delicious and satisfying and yet they are literally burning your lips and and your mouth feels like it’s on fire ?  You have just learned that pleasure and pain cannot only be felt together, but can actually amplify each other.  Let’s take that lesson into the next level of advanced BDSM gear…keeping an open mind ?

 

ElectraStim EM60-M Flick Electrosex Stimulator Multipack Set

$199.99

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Summary

Now admittedly, electro-stimulation is not for everyone.  But if you find that you are someone who truly enjoys unique experiences and/or a little pain during sex (spanking, whips, gagging, etc), this is something you should def try.  If you are new to electro-stimulation, you will want to try out a kit like this that has it all.  Similar to a TENS unit (used for pain relief), this kit will allow you to experiment in the delight of both internal and external electronic tickles, pulsations and tingles.  

Details

The EM60 Flick is a high-quality, rechargeable power unit that “amplifies” electrosex play with motion-activated electrical currents and a hair raising 24 different intensity levels. Furthermore, unlike many e-stim (electronic stimulation) toys it provides 7 distinct patterns and comes with 3 plug-in accessories.

Why it is amazing

This toy is designed to zap your nerve endings with anything from mind to intense pulses of electrical current.  In its milder settings, the sensation is similar to, but more effective than vibration stimulation. This does NOT need to be painful ladies.  Low level play feels more like soft tickles or vibration.  Of course, for those of you who enjoy a little pain and/or fearful anticipation to excite you during sex, this unit can step up the volume for seriously exciting and unique customizable experiences.  Bring on the ELECTROGASMS ladies!!! ⚡⚡

PRO TIP:  For me, the best way to utilize this kit is when I’m bound and blindfolded and my partner decides when, where and how much he wants to “stimulate” me.  The anticipation and surrender I feel from this sort of play is intense and immense ??

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Easy-On Latex Catsuit with Bust Zippers

$99.99

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Summary

When it comes to advanced BDSM play, looking and feeling the part is where it all starts.  You want to bring it!!  You want to get yourself in the mood.  And you want to get your partner in the mood.  And you want to BRING THE NAUGHTY & KINKY VOLUME UP TO 11.  So, whether you are playing the dom or the sub, nothing says BDSM play like a sheer, black latex catsuit.  It looks so shiny and decadent and yet it feels so sleek and incredibly soft.

Details

This beautiful shiny latex catsuit absolutely SCREAMS BDSM!  It has a soft lining so that it’s easy to get on and very comfortable to wear, even for extended periods.  There are zippers for to provide easy access to your breast and nipples for your partner’s pleasure and erotic play.  There is also a front zipper that can be adjusted anywhere between the neck and panty line allowing you to customize the look.  The best part of this catsuit is that it has the look and feel of latex, but it’s so much easier to get on and it is just as skin tight as any latex catsuit. You don’t need powder to get it on and you won’t sweat inside of it ?

Why it is amazing

Advanced BDSM is all about being imaginative and creative and going as far as you want to take it.  So, when I imagine my ideal BDSM experience I’m dressed in black latex from head to toe, I have on black heels. If I’m going to be the dom, then I have my trusty whip or paddle in my hand and I’m ready to take charge and let out some aggression and sexual energy.  Or, if I’m the sub, I’m ready to go into sub mode and be used and degraded for my partners pleasure.  Either way, I’m playing a part and I want the perfect wardrobe to get me in the mood.

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Of course, everyone has their own style, so checkout some of the other BDSM fetish clothing available

Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Whip

$36.99

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Summary

Sticks and stones may break my bones, But chains and whips excite me”  – Rihania S&M

It’s hard to say it better than that!  Taking it to the next level, means your toys get more real and more menacing, both looking the BDSM part and capable of serious pain.  But one thing that we can all agree on is that bringing a whip like this to the part is going to get the blood pumping and the excitement & fear level amplified.

Details

This faux snakeskin leather whip is for intermediate to advanced play.  THIS IS NOT A TOY!!!  It has a soft centre braided beautiful faux snakeskin pattern.  It’s just short of 3 feet long making it both easy to handle and manageable for indoor play.  The handle is a full 5 inches ensuring a solid grip allowing you to use this in a true whipping fashion.

Why it is amazing

You may want to check out a youtube video if you are not familiar with how to properly use a whip.  But this whip is the real deal and can deliver the intense punishment to more advanced subs who are familiar with receiving pain with their pleasure.  This whip is beautifully crafted and just as perfect for role play as it would be for cosplay or even a BDSM party.

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Lovehoney Pinch Perfect Adjustable Clitoral Clamp

$9.99

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Summary

I love clit clamps for BDSM for the same reason I love nipple clamps.  The send your already sensitive nerve endings into overdrive amplifying every tiny sensation and creating a true pleasure vs pain situation.  Just as with nipple clamps, there are good clit clamps and bad ones out there, so you need to be careful.  What you want in a clit clamp is something that provides a ‘“squeezing” sensation versus something that has a sharp “pinching” sensation.  Ideally, you want to be able to wear your clit clamps for a long period of time, feeling the pressure build up over time.  When your clamp is finally released, your clit should be ULTRA sensitive to the touch and light up like the fourth of July with even the slightest stroke, lick or vibration.  That is why this clamp is my absolute favorite!

Details

The nickel-free metal, sliding tweezer design is ingenious providing a safe and easy way to adjust the pressure of high-end clit clamp.  The soft silicone, hypoallergenic tips are the perfect way to create that incredible sense of pressure without creating a hotspot of unbearable pain.  These clamps are strong and durable and will last, but at the same time soft and provide delicate pressure that you need for extended play time to build body-shuddering climaxes.  This is a perfect example of how extended pain or discomfort can bring about indescribable pleasure!! ??

Why it is amazing

When it comes to clit clamps, there is a very broad range in both quality and functionality.  This clamp provides high-quality durability.   It’s comfortable and easy to adjust providing the most perfect fit.  The large rubber clamps easily clip on but provide a broader “squeezing” feeling rather than a sharp “pinching” sensation.  This clamp will build up the pressure and anticipation so that when it is finally relaxed the increased blood flow and circulation will provide the most INCREDIBLE BODY-SHUDDERING ORGASMS you have every felt.

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Doc Johnson The Stinger Electro Play Wand

$39.99

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Summary

Is your relationship lacking that spark?  That electricity that you once felt??  Maybe it’s time to re-ignite your chemistry and shock your partner with your next level naughty.  Then I have the MOST PERFECT toy for you.  Nothing will bring you into the moment and make you focus faster than a targeted electric shock ⚡ to your naked body.  It’s intense.  It’s painful.  But it also brings a very real sense of dom/sub play and the unique ability to differentiate pain from pleasure in a not so subtle way LOL ??

Details

The Stinger Electro Wand will literally put the literal spark back into your relationship. This advanced level BDSM toy is designed to emulate a cattle prod for closeup zaps focused on a small area.  The reason this toy brings the next level fun is because it not only shocks, but it also visibly sparks and produces an impressive and surprising audible CRACK noise that will shock you in more ways than one.

Why it is amazing

This may sound like a toy this out there for many and it may sound like more pain than pleasure.  But trust me when I tell you that it adds a level of excitement to your BDSM fun that you ABSOLUTELY will not find in any other toy. This will keep your partners nerves on pins and needles and demand their FULL attention throughout your session awaking their nerve endings INSTANTLY and DEMANDING 100% focus on you and any sensation that may come next.

PRO TIP:  Mixing pain and pleasure is the key to great BDSM play.  Executed properly, this toy will heighten not only the pain level, but also the pleasure level for both partners.

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Sex Bench Massage BDSM Furniture

$599.00

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Summary

It’s time to take the naughty 50 shades darker into the next level of BDSM play.  BDSM FURNITURE!!  BDSM toys, light gear and apparel are certainly fun, but if you want to REALLY get into the darker, more intense fantasies, BDSM furniture is a MUST!!  This BDSM sex bench is a sturdy piece of play furniture with unlimited potential.  Strap your partner’s arms and legs into position and they will be at your craven mercy.  

Details

This ultra-sturdy and ergonomically shaped bench will leave them exposed for spankings, penetration, or both.  Made of sturdy steel and leather, this sex bench provides comfortable padding for your partner’s entire body, especially their arms, legs and head.  Best of all, it puts them in a comfortable yet submissive position for both flogging, toy play and penetration from behind.

Why it is amazing

There are so many uses for this item.  Strap your partner in making them feel helpless and exposed subjecting them to ideal flogging positions.  Imagine your sub counting ouch each spank or flog as you deliver them.  Tickle them.  Zap them.  Their moans and squeals will be fully audible through the U-shaped headrest allowing them to feel both comfortable but fully exposed.  Your partner can easily slide in behind you for ideal deep penetration.  Your BDSM play has gone hard core as this beautiful and sturdy piece of furniture makes the perfect addition to your dungeon.

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Japanese Rope Bondage “Shibari”

I’d be remiss if I didn’t mention advanced bondage techniques such as Japanese rope bondage which is called “shibari”.  Here is a simple introduction video to shibari with some simple techniques and hacks to make your rope typing easier.

You can find shibari rope here:

Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage Rope 10 Meter

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Summary

Clearly this is just a sampling of some of the many toys that you can explore as part of your journey to BDSM nirvana.  But hopefully I’ve ignited a few fantasies and kinks that you want to explore further.  Keeping an open mind and a kinky heart, your exploration is sure to take you to places that you never fantasized about.  BDSM role play allows you and your partner to delve deeper into your most human nature for control or submission.  It allows you to explore without judgement, learn without limits and become something you never imagined possible.  And that my kinky friends, it what life is all about ?

Happy Orgasms Ladies ?

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